Do you smoke? This question provided us with the doctor in the first consultation in the infertility clinic. I replied in the negative. Although I used here and there smoked a cigarette, but a separate package I would have never bought. Usually I bummed a cigarette from anyone after I had already drunk a wine or a beer. With a slight taste of cigarettes just tipsy. When we began to actively wish for our children to practice ', there was no problem for me to omit even these few cigarettes.
Now the doctor looked at my partner urgently. "And do you smoke?" His face was suddenly an expression as if he had been caught red-handed minor offense.
"Yes." He answered, still confident. The doctor responded with decisive Sound: "If you want something to help ensure that your children wish to come true, please stop it." "Wow, that has been sitting, I thought. Secretly I was glad that someone finally the thing once so clearly expressed. Of course, I had ever tried to address the issue, but who could exude more credibility and competence as a doctor of the fertility clinic?
evening at home I was fighting with me, if I should talk about smoking again open. Finally, the doctor had given me a template to do so. On the other hand, I contended. Our relationship is in very good condition, because we are not each other Make rules. It should stay that way but an unfulfilled desire for children is also just my business. I had to dig deeper times as long as the topic was hot! So I gave me a jolt. "Will you stop for now smoke?" It stumbled out of me. A few seconds later I was stunned, because his answer was "No".
silence.
"Pardon me?" I thought. "I do not think it's because I smoke." He added after a brief pause in added yet. "That really is incredible!" It was boiling inside me, but I said nothing. What would it help if I'm logical arguments against such a completely illogical statement would bring? When I had found my inner countenance, "I said finally." If the doctor says a fertility clinic that smoking is one of the
main reasons for poor sperm quality , then the vote already, "Internally, I thought," I pump my body soon with hormones full, go to physical and emotional risks - enlarged ovaries, thrombosis risk, anesthetic risk, depression - just to name a few - and you do not do anything "I finished the evening inside upset?. After this conversation, should the issue of smoking first rest for a few weeks.
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